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Are You Just A Booty Call?

Are You Just A Booty Call?

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Are you a booty call? Can you really tell? Some ladies might like to be booty called every now and then. Especially if they are head over heels with the guy who calls them in the middle of the night just to sleep with them and have a good time. Of course, such scenarios might also lead to confusion, as to whether the guy is truly into them or if he is only after sex. If he has a girlfriend, fiancée or wife, things might a little clearer. Of course booty calls can also be mistaken for emerging affairs. And, at times, at rare times, booty calls could turn into serious relationships – who knows where love might spring out?

So can you honestly tell the difference between a booty call and a potential mate? Do you mind being considered and treated like a simple booty call? If you are the casual type as well, you probably won’t mind knowing you are. If you have started to have feelings for the guy, it might be time to throw some light over these late night affairs between the sheets! Here are some obvious signs that you are in fact a booty call – and nothing more.

Are You Just A Booty Call?Sign #1: He has a girlfriend/fiancée/wife.

If the guy you are casually seeing is already officially involved in some sort of relationship, or if you know for a fact that he is sleeping around with other ladies as well things should be pretty clear and your questioning could probably stop right there. You are very likely, nothing but a booty call to him.

Sign #2: You spend most of your time together naked.

Booty calls do not necessarily need to be made in the middle of the night to be considered booty calls. You could be very well spending your time hanging around with the guy, maybe doing some stuff together, like watching a movie or eating lunch. But if invariably all of your encounters are leading to sex one way or the other or if you are spending 80 percent of your time together in bed, chances are he does not want anything more from you.

Are You Just A Booty Call?Sign #3: You are both (or at least one of you is) always drunk or tipsy when you meet.

If he constantly insist on getting you drunk when you come around, chances are there is nothing much going on there, other than casual sex.

Sign #4: He never chills with you after sleeping together.

If this guy constantly makes up excuses for not being able to spend the night or not being able to stay for a while longer the moment you finish having sex, things are pretty clear. Or if, God forbids, he rushes you out after you end your “date”, chances are he solely wants you for your “assets” and nothing more.

Sign #5: You never hang out with his friends or you’ve never met them.

If you have no clue who your booty call is hanging out with, if he never says his friends’ names or if he does not even bother to introduce you to his friends when he runs into them in the street, chances are you don’t mean that much to him, to put it nicely.

Sign #6: Does he ever ask you about your day, job or life in general?

If this guy is not interested in knowing how your day at work went or even what you do for a living, or if he barely finds the time to have a meaningful conversation about your life and future plans in general, he definitely does not picture sitting by your side in the long term.

Sign #7: Does he call late at night, inviting himself over?

This is of course, one of the most obvious signs you should be looking for – but on the other hand, the guy could also really be into you, but definitely be skeptical.

Conclusion

All in all, you should keep an eye on the things that the guy does to impress you after you have sex – if there aren’t any things to talk about, the situation is pretty clear. You see, the true measure of a guys intention to be with you usually happens after sex, and not before.

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