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How To Love A Man (8 Ways To Show Him You Really Love Him)

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Making a man fall for you is hard work, but loving a man is a piece of cake, right? I hate to disappoint you, but no. Not always, at least. Contrary to popular belief it takes more than good food and good sex to show a man how much you love him.

Sure they are less complicated than us women, and sure they might make it seem like they can live off of only sex and food. But men have other needs, and they would like for them to be met by the woman they’re in a relationship with.

Some men need extra pampering and care to feel truly loved. Others might need emotional support during tough times. While some men might feel the need for none of this and would prefer to be left alone to figure things out.

Men are from Mars and women are from Venus… But we all live here on planet Earth lets not forget that.

So what’s a girl to do? What do men really want? You can’t go wrong with the tips below. Here are 8 surefire ways to love your man the right way…

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1. Love him for who he truly is.

It is counterproductive to spend half of your relationship fighting against your boyfriend’s annoying habits. Love him for his baggy jeans and often annoying football obsession. In other words, learn to appreciate the person he truly is.

After all, you don’t want to date a puppet, do you? Nope, I didn’t think so.

So don’t try to project your own romantic ideas upon him. If the guy you are currently with does not share even half of your beliefs or life aspirations and goals, and there are dramatic differences between the two of you, instead of trying to change him, you might want to reconsider if you’re in the right relationship or not.

2. Continue to be the woman he fell in love with.

A lot of women make the mistake of changing into a different person once their man commits to the relationship. He will definitely notice and likely won’t be happy with the new woman you’ve become.

Now I’m not talking about the natural progression of life because everyone changes with time. But if you were a loving and caring woman that liked to spend your weekends cuddled up watching movies, it’s going to upset your relationship if you one day become the type of woman that goes to the club every Friday night.

Make sure you continue to be the woman he fell in love with.

3. Hear him out.

How To Love A Man (8 Ways To Show Him You Really Love Him)

Even when he is not using words to express his feelings.

As the saying goes “Those that truly love you can hear you even when you’re silent.”

If you notice changes in his behavior, ask him what’s wrong. Don’t wait for a whole pile of problems to form. Every man wants his woman to understand him as much as humanly possible.

4. Express your gratitude for the things you have done together.

For all the great times you’ve spent together, for all of your achievements as a couple, for the things you have managed to go through and overcome together, be thankful.

Gratitude and appreciation goes a long way in relationships… Don’t forget to show how much you truly appreciate him every now and then.

5. Don’t smother him.

Your man will know that you really love him the moment you understand how important it is for him to spend some time apart from you. Don’t take it the wrong way, but your man also needs his alone time, just like you.

Besides spending too much time together will invite arguments and make the relationship go stale. Absence indeed makes the heart grow fonder. Never forget that.

6. Don’t hesitate to give compliments.

Make your man feel good about himself, he really needs it from time to time, all men do. Let him know that you appreciate his qualities, but be careful not to overdo it. Be genuine with your kind words and gestures.

7. Reignite the flame every once in a while.

Do something completely new and spontaneous every now and then. Most men love adventure, and taking him on a few is a good way to show him how much you love him.

Finally, do not forget to learn how to love yourself. It is impossible to love someone else… If you don’t love yourself first…

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