Men are elusive creatures. Iconic for their mystery, especially in the love department, women are constantly trying to decode what their vague words and actions signify.
When it comes to love and relationships, women are known to dissect all they can in the hopes of getting even a tiny bit more insight into the minds of men. Just look at the jaw-dropping success of Steve Harvey’s: Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man series.
Men are typically non verbal. Which can lead to doubts that your man actually loves you as much as you love him.
To help ease your worries, we have compiled a list of non verbal signs that he’s in love.
1. Eye contact.
Do you ever catch him glancing in your direction when he thinks you’re not paying attention? If he’s in love, he can’t help but watch you sometimes. You’re breathtaking to him, even when you don’t feel like it.
2. He’s not afraid to be himself.
How does he act around you? It’s important to notice if he’s relaxed and himself when he’s with you. If he isn’t afraid to do all the silly, and often strange things most people keep private, it’s safe to say he trusts you. There’s no better way to show that he cares for you deeply than to be so open with you.
3. Meaningful surprises.
Does he ever just show up with a gift? Like the time he surprised you with flowers on a random day or left candies in a hidden place. If a guy takes the time to buy you random gifts, he really cares about you. You can tell you stay on his mind.
4. He considers you.
Men are often very territorial, especially when it comes to their homes. Women often find it difficult to make space for themselves in a guy’s apartment. If he loves you, he’ll be considerate about your needs. Maybe it’s stocking his fridge with iced tea because he knows you like it or buying new blankets because you said the old ones were itchy.
If he’s considering your basic needs and thinking of your relationship in practical terms, it’s a great sign. He sees you as a more permanent person in his life and is doing what he sees as practical ways to show you he cares.
5. He includes you in his plans.
Planning requires consideration for the future. If he includes you in long-term plans, that’s a great sign. Guys show their love by automatically including their partner in their plans. If he’s using “we” instead of “I,” you’re on the right path.
6. He keeps in contact.
From updating you on his day to calling you before he falls asleep, you’re on his mind constantly. Keeping in touch with you in his way of showing love by keeping you in the loop of his life. Guy’s hate to be on a leash or clinging to scheduled phone calls and text messages, but if they really care, they’ll reach out to you without being asked to.
7. Spontaneous touching. Guys are very tactile.
If he reaches for your hand during dinner or rests his hand on your back as you’re walking, he can’t help but want to be closer to you. He’ll find any reason to touch you, no matter how small. Think of those little hand squeezes as bursts of love.
8. He goes out of his way to make you happy.
Men don’t waste time on people they don’t care about. Because he loves you, he’ll do anything to make you smile or laugh. Seeing you happy makes his heart light up. If he goes out of his way to do something that’ll make your day, you’ve got a keeper.
9. He cancels plans to be with you.
If he’s really crazy about you, don’t be surprised if he blows off his boys just to spend another night with you. Sometimes getting to see you is the highlight of his week. Sure he would love to be at the bar with his boys and watch the game, but he also can’t help but think that spending time with his special lady might be just a little bit better.
These are just a few of the non verbal signs a man is in love. Want more? Pick up your copy of our FREE eBook 19 Non Verbal Signs He Loves You!