Question: Guess who's coming to dinner?

Question: Guess who’s coming to dinner?

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Dear writers

Yesterday my boyfriend called and asked me if I cared if he brought one of his good friends from work over to my apartment. “Of Course Not,” I responded. I actually thought it was cute that he was thoughtful enough to ask. Trying to be the perfect girlfriend, I decided to change my cooking plans and make spaghetti and salad. As I was nearly done cooking I heard my boyfriends keys open the door. As I turned around to greet him and his guest I nearly fell to the floor. His friend from work, I knew him very well… He was a guy I had met over six months ago at the gym. I cheated on my boyfriend with him, but quickly ended the affair out of guilt.

As you can imagine I had a very awkward night. It was made even more awkward as his friend kept flashing glances at me like he was undressing me with his eyes, whenever my boyfriend wasn’t looking. I’m lost on what I should do… Should I reveal this secret to my boyfriend and risk destroying our relationship? If I don’t tell my boyfriend what if his friend tells him? I’m stuck in between a rock and a hard place, please help.

Question answered By staff writer Naomi Epps.

OMG girl what have you gotten yourself into? I think it goes without saying that you have to tell him… Is he going to break up with you? Probably. But he deserves the truth. How long can you keep up this facade? I doubt very long, what is done in the dark eventually comes to the light. And with all that sexy eyeing that his friend is giving you, it won’t be long until it’s all out in the open. If you love your boyfriend then explain to him why you cheated on him, and that you are sorry. Infidelity is always hard to deal with, the fact that the person you cheated with is one of his friends will make it all the more difficult.

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