8 Undeniable Signs You're Dating The Wrong Person

8 Undeniable Signs You’re Dating The Wrong Person

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Relationships often leave us women scratching our heads and asking the question,

“How could I had ever dated him?!”

The man that you were once so crazy about turned out to be a complete jerk, and for the longest time, you failed to see it…

Or did you?

Chances are at some point in the relationship, maybe weeks, or months before the breakup you silently asked yourself, “Am I dating the wrong person?”

Many of us are in relationships asking ourselves this question right now. Unable to make a decision to stay or go, second guessing our intuition.

So how can you truly know if you’re in a relationship with the wrong man? It’s not very hard if you know what to look for.

Here are 8 undeniable signs that you’re dating the wrong person.

Sign #1: You feel the need to censor yourself around him.

8 Undeniable Signs You're Dating The Wrong Person

In other words, you always have the feeling you need to rethink what you were going to say because you are afraid you will be misunderstood, or that he will get angry, or won’t approve. Feeling like you can’t express yourself around your man is never a good sign.

Excuse my language but, you’re a grown ass woman, and you can say whatever the hell you want to say.

Sign #2: He is extremely self-centered.

Sure a little selfishness is healthy. We should all look out for ourselves and protect our best interest. However, if you notice your guy doesn’t take you into consideration when making decisions, he’s not the one for you.

Especially pay attention to if he’s selfish about petty things. If he is selfish on the small stuff, he’ll be selfish on the big stuff too.

Sign #3: You feel like a possession instead of a partner.

8 Undeniable Signs You're Dating The Wrong Person

This guy treats you like he owns you. Tries to tell you what to do, what to wear, who you should and shouldn’t hang out with. You feel like you have no privacy, and he’s extremely jealous. All of these things are sure signs that you’re dating the wrong person.

Sign #4: He disrespects you.

Or, it could be a friend of yours or someone in your family. If he has no problem with being disrespectful to you or your loved ones, don’t even think twice about if he’s the right man or not. He’s not. Get rid of him. No man should ever be entitled to talk down to you and the people you love.

This is one of the most obvious signs you’re dating the wrong person that there is.

Sign #5: He shoots down all your dreams.

If he is always telling you that your goals are silly, or impossible to accomplish, he’s not the right man for you. It’s going to be nearly impossible to achieve your goals with your biggest hater sleeping in the bed next to you.

You need a partner that supports you wants to see you succeed and believes that you can do it!

Sign #6: He’s solely focused on your relationship.

While this could also be an indication that he is interested in taking your relationship to the next level, obsessing too much over you two as a couple and not having any goals of his own makes him unfit for you. It might be cute in the beginning, but long term no woman wants a man who defines himself by the person he’s dating, rather than by the things he accomplishes with his own life.

This could also be an early warning sign that the relationship could one day journey down a dark path.

Sign #7: You can’t see him as the father of your children.

If you can’t imagine giving birth to your future children with him by your side and you don’t see him as a fit, loving father, he’s the wrong guy for you, especially if you want children at some point in the future.

Sign #8: He never says he’s sorry.

His ego is inflated to the point where apologizing when he’s wrong is nearly impossible. And if he does say he’s sorry, you can tell by the look in his eyes that he is not being sincere, and then he keeps on bringing up his argument to try to prove his point, even after he struggled to provide you with his fake apology plus.


If you are dating a man who shows many of these signs, you’re dating the wrong person, (unless for some strange reason you are attracted to the things I listed above.) If not, it’s best that you gently end the relationship and go find your Mr. Right. There’s somebody out there for everyone, don’t waste your time in a dead-end relationship with the wrong man, find your soul mate before it’s too late

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