Hello once again to all the beautiful ladies out there that read our site week in and week out.
This is Quentin W, back again with a few lessons on love.
This week I want to talk about sex, in particular how to spot when your man is bored with your sex life.
In that instance, it’s undoubtedly time for you to spice things up.
For that I typically suggest our readers check out, “How to Make Him Sexually Obsessed With You… Without Even Touching Him…” because sexual attraction and satisfaction for a man is about so much more than what happens between the sheets.
But back to the topic at hand: How to identify if he’s bored with your sex life in the first place.
So here’s the question: Have you been sensing that your man might be less interested in making love than he was when your relationship first began?
Has he appeared to be bored, less excitable, or unadventurous when it comes to the bedroom?
Or, maybe you haven’t even noticed it yet. In that case, these signs are definitely for you.
So let’s get into it.
Here are five signs that will undoubtedly reveal if he’s bored with your sex life or not.
1. He doesn’t return the favor.
Now here’s what I mean by this. Making love is all about reciprocity.
The truth is, you ain’t got no business doing to him what he won’t do to you. Sex is all about giving and receiving.
Case in point: If you spend a long time feasting on his downtown corridor, but he hardly ever has a taste of your Red Light District, he might be getting bored with chasing your waterfall if you catch my drift.
If he won’t give as much as he receives… Then he probably doesn’t like what he’s receiving…
2. He spends time watching flicks over being with you.
Stop the press…don’t get me wrong.
I’m not saying that there’s something wrong with watching adult films every now and then. As a matter of fact, a lot of sex experts agree that doing so as a couple is a good way to spice things up.
However, if you catch your man watching X-rated movies more than he entertains you in the bedroom, then it’s a good sign that he’s bored.
3. He stops complimenting you on your beauty.
Looks alone will get a man’s attention. But sometimes, a man will tell you what he knows you want to hear for the purpose of one thing: To see how you work what’s in them jeans, lol I’m just being honest.
But whether he genuinely was digging you or was just trying to get in your pants, one thing is for sure.
If he gets a piece of that work and is unimpressed, don’t expect him to call or text you “hey beautiful” anytime soon.
Indeed, the relationship will basically become a “friend zone” type of thing.
Not meaning that he won’t continue to have sex with you if you keep offering it. He just won’t be all in ya ear with the compliments and sweet talk anymore.
4. He isn’t returning your calls or text messages in a timely manner.
When it comes to love and relationships, you want a partner that’s trustworthy and responsive.
If your man suddenly starts disappearing, not answering text, and reappearing with lame excuses let’s be real… It’s possible that he’s entertaining the company of another woman.
Whether you’ve been together for a few years or a few months, when you call or text him only to get a response hours later, the thrill is likely gone.
There are very few believable excuses to give after this ish has happened over and over again.
Whether he’s bored with the relationship or bored with your sex life his actions are showing you that he’s having more fun elsewhere.
5. He seems bored and uninterested when you make love.
This is probably the biggest sign that he’s bored with your sex life that there is.
If you’ve been together for several months or years, then you know your man’s energy and vibe.
Does his vibe seem off when you’re making love? Does he seem bored and uninterested?
Trust your intuition, if you sense that he’s bored, then he probably is.
Actions always have and always will speak louder than words. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out when a person is losing their physical attraction to you.
As I stated in the introduction to this article ladies, I highly suggest you check out “How to Make Him Sexually Obsessed With You… Without Even Touching Him…” because sexual attraction and satisfaction for a man is about so much more than what happens between the sheets..
Life is too short to deal with a partner that clearly isn’t feeling you in the bedroom. And real love is too fleeting to let a lackluster sex life destroy a good relationship.
If this is a long term relationship or marriage and you think you’re just dealing with a sexual rut check out this article here to spice things up.
On the other hand, If it’s not a long term relationship consider just moving on.
Let him find what he’s looking for, and you do the same.
As the saying goes: One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.
Ya’ll ladies be blessed out there.
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