He makes you smile, makes you feel important, and you share everything with each other.
You’ve finally found the one… Or have you?…
In most relationships at one point or another, we feel like we’ve found “the one.”
But eventually, things change, their true colors show, people grow apart.
So how can you know if what you’re feeling is real this time? How can you tell if you’ve built a bond that nothing can tear apart?
To leave no doubt in your mind that you’ve finally found the man that you will spend the rest of your life with we’ve compiled 6 signs that you and your man have built an unbreakable bond.
1. You trust each other completely.
Trust is a significant pillar of any lasting relationship. Signs of mistrust can help you identify whether or not you have truly built a bond that can’t be broken.
If you trust your man fully and are sure that he trusts you too, then your relationship will stand the test of time.
2. He affirms and acknowledges your value.
When you first begin dating each partner is on their best behavior and doesn’t hesitate to compliment the other.
You feel like a queen, and your man can’t get enough of you. However, as we can tell from all the breakups and divorces this type of flattery doesn’t tend to last more than 6 months to a year.
This type of “settling into” the relationship is natural. But that doesn’t mean he still shouldn’t affirm and acknowledge your value.
If your man honors you after months or years, if he still tells you how beautiful and special you are after the “honeymoon period” is over, then your bond is unbreakable.
3. You share common ideals and values.
This does not mean sharing a mutual liking of the same movie genre or ice cream flavor.
This goes much deeper, to your core values.
To know whether your bond is intact and unbreakable, you will need something more than basic hobbies and interests to hold you together.
Religious beliefs, long-term goals, outlook on life, moral standards. If you hold mutual ideologies on these things, then your relationship is one built on a solid foundation.
Couples who share real-life values and beliefs can overcome nearly any challenge that comes their way.
4. You feel a sense of security around each other.
Unbreakable bonds feel secure in every sense of the word.
You feel physically secure, emotionally secure, financially secure, secure in the truth of his commitment.
If you feel this way around your man you have built a bond that is nearly impossible to be broken.
5. You can share your issues, concerns, and failures without fear of being judged.
Not many people can say that they can share anything with their partner without the fear of being judged.
If you are one of the few couples in this exclusive group you have built an unbreakable bond.
If you and your man can openly discuss your fears, failures, concerns and challenges without fearing any kind of condemnation from the other, then you are a very special couple.
A strong bond will always shield you, cover your nakedness and make you feel safe and secure.
6. You have no secrets.
This might sound like a repeat of the previous factor, but it isn’t. To be truly open is to have no secrets.
If you can’t touch his phone and he can’t touch yours, then your relationship isn’t truly open.
Partners who are open with each other, and have nothing to hide have a glue that holds them together and cannot be easily broken.
On the other hand, a relationship with only minor secrets is shaky. Once trust is broken, no matter how minor the offense it’s hard to rebuild.
Building an unbreakable bond takes time.
However, there are some things you can do and simple question you can ask that will strengthen his emotional connection to you, but you both must have a high level of compatibility in the first place.
The reality of the matter is that building a strong relationship and a connection that can’t be broken doesn’t happen overnight and without conscious effort from both parties.
If you want to create such a connection you can follow the example of successful couples and the goals they accomplish together that solidify their bond.
And for those of you that have already formed an unbreakable relationship, congratulations to you. Never take it for granted, what you have built is a true rarity.