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7 Non Sexual Things That Make a Woman Incredibly Sexy to Men

7 Non Sexual Things That Make a Woman Incredibly Sexy to Men

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Hey, what’s up BlackLoveAdvice.com fam? I’m back once again with a double dose of relationship and dating advice.

So, yesterday I was posed with the question: “What makes a woman attractive to men?”

Obviously, a woman can attract men simply by using her physical attributes.

Every single day there’s a woman posting a thirst trap pic of herself on Facebook, Instagram, or another place online for the world to see.

We all see the likes and thirsty comments so we know it gets these women attention.

But it’s not just online where we see this.

It’s not uncommon to see women dressed far too provocative at the grocery store or even church!

Yea, thirst trappin is at an all time high lol.

Now don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with a woman accentuating her physical qualities.

However, when it comes to long term relationships men value substance over surface.

I know they say that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach and his (fill in the blank.)

But that’s not entirely accurate.

In fact, a woman has the power to make a man sexually addicted to her without even touching him if she knows what she’s doing.

And that’s ten times more powerful than sex alone.

What this all boils down to is that you gotta have something else to offer if you want men to take you seriously.

With that being said, here are seven non sexual things that men find incredibly sexy in a woman.

1. Having goals and aspirations. 

7 Non Sexual Things That Make a Woman Incredibly Sexy to Men

Ambition is an outstanding character trait to have, especially in a woman.

Setting short and long-term goals is very attractive because it inspires couples to build something together.

Not only that, being able to follow through on your dreams and aspirations with action shows a man that you’re serious about being successful in this world.

For a man with ambitions coming across a woman that is just as ambitious as he is, is incredibly attractive.

2. Knowing how to do something cool that he doesn’t know how to do. 

Having a rare talent or ability is a very special trait that can put a man in a trance.

This can especially be the case if your man doesn’t know how to do it himself.

It can be something as simple as doing a card trick he’s never seen before.

We all like novel things and the opportunity to be wowed by something new.

When a woman is the one showing a man something cool he can’t do himself or that he’s never seen before he can’t help but be a little smitten.

To sum it up: Knowing how to do something cool that he doesn’t know how to do himself is incredibly appealing to most men.

3. Having a good vocabulary. 

As the saying goes: “Conversation rules the nation.”

And it’s a fact that the words that come out of a person’s mouth (or their keyboard) can be more reflective of them than their looks.

Just think about it for a second. Have you ever talked to a person that couldn’t put together a sentence without cursing or pronouncing every other word incorrectly?

Or have you texted back and forth with someone that “Tex lik diz?”

Pretty annoying right?

Yes, it’s a major turn off for men also.

Having a conversation with a woman that can communicate without throwing around curse words every few sentences and that can send a text message that contains real words is a major plus for a lot of men.

This shows that she has a solid vocabulary, which reveals intelligence. This will always score points with a good man.

4. Having common courtesy. 

A really good man will never overlook the little things that require manners and common courtesy.

For example: Returning phone calls and text messages in a timely fashion is a major plus.

Saying “thank you” with a smile when he picks up the tab after an enjoyable dinner is another form of common courtesy that goes a long way.

Men find little things like that incredibly alluring and appealing… Partly because having manners and being conscientious is becoming so rare…

5. Enjoying a good book. 

Reading is definitely a lost art. Seeing a woman end her evening off with a good book is a turn on for a lot of men.

It shows that she has intelligence and substance.

A good man will always find those two things to be attractive.

6. Paying attention to her physical health.

7 Non Sexual Things That Make a Woman Incredibly Sexy to Men

A big part of looking good is feeling good health-wise.

Exercise, being aware of the things you put in your body, caring about your overall physical health is a huge plus for any real man.

Guys definitely take notice when a woman cares about not only how she looks on the outside, but how she feels on the inside.

It might seem small, but it’s incredibly sexy to men.

7. Having patience. 

This is a huge one here. As my grandfather used to say: “The things that are really valuable in life are worth waiting for.”

Patience is indeed a virtue. And men find it to be a very sexy quality in a woman.

One of the realities of life is that most people lack the patience to achieve their long term goals and not abandon things at the first sign of difficulty.

For that very reason, a woman with patience is incredibly appealing to men.

Conclusion

Women and men by nature are sexual beings.

However, carnal desire will never be more important than soulful bonding, and it will never be enough alone to sustain a loving relationship.

At the end of the day to keep a man interested, you have to have something more than beauty to offer.

Beauty eventually fades, and there’s so much more to life than what meets the eye. A good man knows this, and he finds a woman that has substance to be incredibly sexy.

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