Seek, and you’ll likely find. Ask, and you’ll likely receive.
These are two things we should keep in mind when trying to determine our compatibility with our mates.
What it all boils down to is that when it comes to establishing a solid relationship with the right person a lot of your success, or failure is determined by if you ask the right questions before things get too serious and really listen to how the other person answers.
This is a very serious issue… More serious than most new couples realize.
I’ve seen it happen time and time again… In the midst of the supercharged honeymoon phase of the relationship, couples are blinded to just how incompatible they really are.
They end up having a child, renting an apartment together or some other big life decision… Then once the magic of new love wears off they realize they don’t love each other, they want to breakup, and from there, things begin to get messy and complicated.
I want to help you avoid that.
Finding out if you are truly compatible before things get too serious is what this article is all about.
Here are five questions that will uncover your actual level of romantic compatibility…
Love Compatibility Question #1: How often do you think couples should call or text each other daily? How often did you call or text your previous boyfriends/girlfriends?
This is a big one. To be truly compatible you must have similar standards for communication. Asking your boyfriend, girlfriend, or potential lover how often they believe couples should call or text each other daily is very important.
Many relationships have fallen apart because each partner had opposite communication and connection patterns.
It’s best to find this out early before the honeymoon phase wears off and you are no longer eager to see and talk to each other every waking moment of the day.
Love Compatibility Question #2: Do you stay in contact with any of your exes?
This is one that you have to be really careful with. You can’t control how somebody from your past may feel about you, but you can always control how you interact with them.
That’s why it’s vital at the outset of a relationship to determine if there are any trivial situations involving exes from your mate’s past. This is something that both parties should be forthcoming about and quickly determine what they are comfortable with.
Do you want to truly reveal how compatible you and your man are? If so, be sure to check out our relationship and dating manual, “Compatibility Test: 255 Questions Couples Should Ask Before Things Get Too Serious”.
Love Compatibility Question #3: How often do you think a person in a relationship should spend time with friends?
Everybody has those ride-or-die homeboys and homegirls that they hang out with.
However, some people spend a lot more time with their friends than others. No matter if they are in a relationship or not.
Spending adequate time with the person you’re in a relationship with is key to making the relationship work for the long term. That’s why it’s important to find out how often your potential mate spends with their friends. It’s also important to know how much your potential lover values those friendships.
Love Compatibility Question #4: What are your three biggest pet peeves?
We all have pet peeves that drive us crazy… However, we tend to overlook or not notice those things in the person we’re dating in the beginning of the relationship
It’s just the way the honeymoon phase works.
It’s very important in the beginning of a relationship to not overlook habits that are deal breakers, or that annoy you to the point of anger.
Side Note: When it comes to finding your true love compatibility match, statistics say nothing beats online dating. In a recent report, it was revealed that couples that met online are happier and are twice as likely to marry as compared to those that met offline.
Love Compatibility Question #5: What are your thoughts about money? Would you classify yourself as a spender or a saver?
This is the one that SOOOO many couples try their hardest to avoid. However, that doesn’t change the fact that numerous studies have shown that a significant portion of divorces are triggered by the stress of frequent financial disagreements.
Not only that, money continues to be an issue long after the marriage is over.
Talking to your new boo about things like how they feel about credit, banking, investing, spending, and saving is 100% necessary.
It’s also a good idea to verify what they tell you by looking at their past behavior. The best predictor of future behavior is usually past behavior.
There are literally thousands of questions you can ask a potential mate to help you figure out your level of compatibility with that person.
Luckily we dwindled it down to the 255 most potent and revealing questions in our eBook, “Compatibility Test: 255 Questions Couples Should Ask Before Things Get Too Serious“.
Most of the time, you can avoid going through future relationship adversity if you ask the right questions in the beginning.
True compatibility is such an essential thing to have if your relationship is going to last. You can learn so much by asking the right questions and comparing your different answers.
If you want to undeniably reveal how compatible you and your boyfriend are, this is the one book to have.
You will be shocked at how much it reveals about the future of your relationship…